why women

Those are good points, but it's also really calculated points. I suppose you'll think me weak minded for being an idealist. I wanted love a long time ago. In my late teens, early twenties. And then I realized women were calculating and what I wanted was somewhat of a fairy tale. There's always catches and red flags and things to consider. I just wanted love, I wanted someone to love me that I was attracted to. And I wasn't attracted to the hottest girl around either. I had crushes that other men might consider average, or pretty, but not super hot. I liked what I liked, until I realized that girls didn't just want that with me. They wanted some other type of guy that I wasn't. More popular, more bad boy, more money, more social, etc. etc. I wasn't a slouch. I was in shape (still am), always had friends, used to be on the varsity team. But there was just always some reason why I would get the cold shoulder. Then I realized it was because I was too shy. I wasn't talkitive enough. Girls took that for weakness. They considered me a beta because of that. I'm not ultimately, but I just used to get nervous around them. And they just ate me up and spit me out. But ultimately I realized they didn't want me, because I wanted them! So I learned how to not be that way. I learned how to project an image of alpha and bad boy and guess what, it worked like a charm. Girls wanted me. I made them think that I was worthy, that other girls wanted me, and I had other options besides just them. And that worked. After I achieved that in their minds I could do everything with them sexually because I learned how to be that certain way. When they realized other girls wanted me they just tried anything they could do to impress me, including sex. So I learned how to play hard to get. I made myself seem like the type of guy that they should chase, I made myself winnable, as opposed to so easy and ready for love with them. I made them try to EARN me. And that made all the difference.

But also at the same time I lost literally all my respect for them as a gender. Because I realized how cold and calculating they were. And also how stupid and silly they were. I was a guy with a respectable character, who wanted to love just ONE of them and do it right. But they didn't care at all about that. They would go and chase absolute losers because those guys were "confident." It didn't matter if I wanted to love them. They wanted the type of guy that wasn't good for them. They construed my kindness and sweetness towards them for weakness. And they could turn on a dime because society let them have that kind of power. Not even just society, but something was in them that was calculating and it wasn't about me, it was about them. They were self serving and the story book type of love I thought was real, wasn't. It was a farce. Women were a different way than Hollywood and the books made them out to be. They weren't this pure, kind, loving group of humans. They were nasty, cold, slutty, and calculating. But they could successfully give off the image that they were a certain way.

So I realized that all men must go through this. And textbook love per se is non existent. So in a sense we all settle. I realized that my young love was never going to happen and I was glad it didn't happen. I was glad I got to see both sides. I became sick with a certain illness in my early twenties, after the popularity of playing varsity died down and women stopped swooning over me like they used to, I realized how materialistic they were. How fake they were. How if I had a good job and then I lost that job they would leave me. How outward they were. How they put their hope in the success and abilities of men rather than the hearts of men. And I just forever got my eyes opened to their real selves.

The PUA problem

The truth is there really is no problem with PUA. Sure women who want to control men hate it. That figures. But the truth is that PUA is advice for guys who have fallen into a controlled social structure where women compartmentalize them into a category based upon their looks, their income, their social status, and whether or not they are wanted by other women. These top four indicators are how women judge men. ALL WOMEN, not just the most sought after ones. Ugly women, fat women, short women, small women, tall women, etc. They all judge men based on these factors. And men judge women on their looks. It's just the truth. However since women have wiggled their way into a social stature that is such that they're in control over men for the most part due to men chasing pussy, the men have to adapt and evolve new ways to pick up women. Women basically sit around and look pretty waiting for a man who has the right amount of money (looks, social status, social worth) to come and marry them. This is the way it is. So men who are just average in all of those categories need something to help them stand out. The whole peacock theory, which is very true. Don't believe me? Go to a concert and see how women go crazy over lead singers. Why? Because they're socially sought after males. This is how women are programmed biologically. Men are adapting and we're learning new tricks. Women shouldn't hate us for that if they were honest and kind creatures, but them being who they are they don't like competition. And men are learning how to compete with women who know all the tricks. Why? Because men know that simply "just being yourself "or "being real" with women DOES NOT WORK. It's as simple as that. We try, it doesn't work, so we find ways to try better. It's simple evolution, don't get mad. You evolved to a point where men wanted you, and you no longer wanted men simply because you wanted men, which is why men want you. You want men+cars/money/house/possessions/good looks/social status/fame/etc. All of those things aren't love. But you've found a way to manipulate the male mind through using your sex to get what you want out of him. So men are finding ways to trick your mind and emotions to get what they want out of you. It's simply life. It's darwinism. The males are adapting and now the playing fields are evening out. And that's why women are mad. It's not because "pua artists are immature jerks" or anything along those lines. It's the fact that you see these things working in society and it scares you out of your matriarchal boots.

PUA helps men who don't stand out. It helps the men who are too nice, or too poor, or too ugly, or too whatever. The ones who've been rejected their whole lives because they weren't the bad boy, and the jock, and the rich kid. We know it all and we've been through it all before and there's nothing you can say to us that would be progressive enough to change our mind from something that actually works and produces results. I've known several friends who turned their lives around using PUA and it's worked for me in the past. If you study it correctly it really does work. Like really. Which is why women are annoyed and deep down scared. To me, it's just checks and balances. Nature even's itself out and average men have found a way to even the playing field in their favor. So I applaud them. I salute them. And I encourage them to keep on doing what they're doing. As a person who's been beaten down by selfish women my whole life I know that a coaching system to help a man adapt his emotions and mind state into frames of success is really a god send. So of course women are going to hate it and oppose it. But they have no real answers when you bring up the truth about how women choose men. They simply have ad hominems. And to someone who's honestly tried their hardest to win over a female and has simply experience years and years of rejection, something like PUA will always be indispensable.

My oservations from dating

Girls SEEM more heartless from a guy's perspective because men want sex and women mostly want relationships. Even girls who are slutty and act like men still want relationships deep down. Or if they don't then they used to, or they're just so warped and twisted that they don't care anymore. Which happens, but I digress.

Girls seem heartless because they view sex in a different way than men do. To them it's more emotionally attached as opposed to physical. That's nature's way of making sure we don't just all screw each other all the time. Because if you left it up to a man's sex drive, we all would. But that's not a knock against men necessarily, which is where a lot of girls get confused. They think men are pigs and stupid jerks because we often think with our sexual member and not our emotional attachents like they do. But the truth is is that men want relationships too, and we have emotions too, but our sex drive is different than yours. Men are driven by a strong physical urge to have sex, and it's mostly physical in nature. Meaning men are very visual, and women are very sexy visually to us. Men are too to women, but for them to want to have sex they need to be stimulated in their brain, and their emotions. And often it's difficult to do that unless you have a relationships with them. This is basically the science behind the problems between genders.

This is also, in my opinion, the major reason many women have a deep seeded resentment towards males in general and learn to act so jaded and play so many games with men. It's nature's way of ensuring furtherance of the race. But since men are getting smarter and smarter and are learning how to attract women it's not going so good imo. Facts to back up that statement are the divorce rate, which the last time I checked was around 70%.

On feminism

Feminism has ruined a lot of lives, marriages, and done a number on a great deal of our country's males. It's related to witch craft, and fits nicely into an oligarchical government system since it helps uplift females through the profiteering of sex (which is perennially in the billions). That is in and of itself highly ironic and hypocritical. Be careful of some of the things you study and believe in. Modern feminism has less to do with equality and more to do with uplifting the powerful female archetype which is based on all kinds of loose ideologies of the female role in society, not the least of which is female power over a male through the use of sex. Which leads me to believe either textbook feminism has no real power, or it has been bought off as a whole and been replaced by the perception of equality which is really just a mutation into gross capitalism and the perceived power therein which is not real, proper power, but the ugly kind of power that only greed, consumption, and the faux advancement that personal riches can bring. In short, we have a devilish deviation through a guise of evolution, change, new cultures, and new found tolerance for lewd, and sexually damaging practices. Meanwhile the family unit lays nearly dessimated as nationwide divorce statistics reach 60% yearly. Are you really succeeding in this supposed war females?? Is this really what you call victory in a fight versus oppression, or is this something else entirely?

There's one thing I will say about the Muslims is they do not play around when it comes to their women. They're wrong, but at the same time they don't tolerate any nonsense. It's statistically proven that pornography is related to 67% of divorces each year in America. Yet pornography is still legal here. Sad. But that type of statistic is non existent in the Muslim world. They do not play around when it comes to allowing their women to be loose and sexually deviant. In America, we've definitely failed in that regard. Historically, after a nation loses its morality, it soon falls. Study up. That's a major theme in the fall of many world powers throughout history.

Today there is a strong push from the 20 and 30 somethings to get behind the feminist movement. The only problem is that the feminist movement doesn't really have any clear cut goals, or even really any clear cut obstacles any longer. The majority of women simply do not face the perils that women of the mid 20th century faced. The western world now benefits women up to the point where we are seriously bordering mysandry and have already jumped head first into the devaluation of the male in society, and particularly in the family and household unit. These things are actually going on right now across our country. This kind of taking advantage of males and using them is a popular theme amongst women and they are even being taught that they are superior to males. This kind of thinking is very dangerous. I believe men should be free from that kind of moral castration. And I've seen it happen in person, and to myself. I'm not talking theory, but experience. The male worth has plumeted in the last few decades and all of the things that benefit the ideals of the independent, strong woman are in their favor. Divorces that lead to a large settlement in favor of the woman, the option to abort a mistake made from loose sexual promiscuity. The advantages that come when idealistically the male is a supposed breadwinner. Etc.

 Not to mention favoritism and partiality. Of which, if women want equality then that will have to stop. Women will need to be far more accountable for their actions if they want equality. No more getting off the hook just because you're a woman.

Break it down and it's about rulership. The family unit should come with roles. Each member needs to play a role. But when you undermine the position of a man as head of household then you have all kinds of issues with regards to the integrity and fluidity of a normal functioning family unit. Basically radical feminism destroys the power of the man to make decisions and dethrones his position within society and family and uplifts a distorted view of female power causing tremendous foundational problems. To give a female the idea that she is just as, if not more powerful than a man within a family unit gives way to leadership struggles. This can easily derail a family unit and cause divorce.


 It's all about roles. Women play an integral role in the family unit, but it's vastly different than a males role. When you start to change roles around you get all kinds of problems. it's not that a man is more important or powerful than a woman. it's that each has specific functions and roles to play, and when you place the role of a man on a woman it's not the same effect in the family unit. This is just an example of the more finite issues from this. But in a broader sense modern feminism is actually worse because it can encourage women to go rogue and not even get married and become part of a family. We see this example with modern "diva's." Women who are financially comfortable using whatever means they can to get theirs. Strippers, porn stars, musicians, gold diggers, escorts, women who use men for money, etc. Of course those are very radical examples, but I believe it's also enforced in a militant way through subversive, and subliminal means within popular entertainment and culture.

 I have no issues with women equality or having a voice or anything like that. That's perfectly fine with me. What I fight against is the subtle de-masculation of the male. Turning him metrosexual, slowly taking away his vigor and sex drive; which is natural, and shouldn't be confused with perversion-which it often is.

 We shouldn't go back tot the 1950's. That was then, this is now. But i think that we have lost much of the altruism that came from that time. We could do without the tyrannical patriarchy though.

 In a healthy, normal marriage, both the man and the woman should submit to each other. They should do things for the betterment of all in the family and their futures.

Modern Mysandry in the Western World

1. So many women are completely delusional when it comes to their gender roles in society. They view men as a means to an end, generally a means to a bank account and the ideals that the male is provider of EVERYTHING in the relationship including emotional and mental stability. This is extreme yes, that's the point, and this distorted radical feminist idealism just backs up this ridiculousness and reinforces the delusion that women aren't just equal, they are superior to men. I believe this is psychologically inbred by many families within the western world. These extreme ideals are reinforced by parents, society, and modern entertainment outlets such as music, movies, and popular culture.  The hyper focus on how women feel and function within relationshps and general society leads to subtle mysandry that we simple haven't address because there is little to no focus on it at all. I believe that's the point to it. To hide it under a guise of reverse psychology in order to achieve its means. Sort of like a continuous false flag. A wonderful ongoing lie that we shrug off and just dismiss as being "woman."Unfortunately for men, our emotions are something that don't get addressed generally in outward society. Rather they are pent up, built up, hidden, shamed, and eventually mocked. Therefore we are viewed to be stoic, emotionless creatures, when the opposite is actually true, and if we do act emotional or sprout a feeling now and then we're either gay or not in control of our situation, as if being vulnerable and emotional are not "manly" traits. Subsequently having emotions is now viewed as wrong, or unconfident, therefore not how a man should act in this society. These type of subtle social mores are being promoted in all of our media, television programs, music, and movies. That is our popular culture.

In our capitalist society a pretty woman is valued much higher than an average female, and she is supposed to get what she wants all of the time and if she doesn't then someone else is wrong, usually a man, i.e. bad boyfriend or daddy. But the focus is not aimed at her inward attitude and behavior, rather towards outward "enemies" to her self perceived entitlement to whatever she wants. A man is almost always to blame for the mishaps or shortcomings in a woman's life and often these women take out their frustration on men who they see as easy targets through their manipulation, mind games, and subtleties. A woman with power is supposed to control all situations in her life, and if she doesn't like a certain situation she can dispel it so to speak, and change the course of everything related to that moment simply because she says so. This is the radical feminist ideal that has been building in western society since the 1970's.

Many men are so beaten down by this aspect of society and women, that we often find we have no respected voice and are completely helpless to a female in many social situations. I've seen many men in this state and I've been in this state myself, and it's sad. A man needs to feel self worth through the eyes of a female and our women are know that and use it to their advantage by keeping us down on ourselves through subversive psychology tactics. This allows women to vicariously climb the ladder of male success using sex as their innermost weapon. We have a reversal of psychology which translates into women owning many social and financial situations through subtle vicariousness using sex, and that boils down to the phrase 'the power of pussy.' Women are adept at using a man's sex drive to exploit his bank account and rendering him a tool for their whims. I would go so far as to say this behavior is promoted and rewarded in pop culture We see this continuously with women who chase rich, famous, and successful men only to use them for their money and benefits and eventually discard them. They can do this because of the biological 'chase' when men seek after a woman. This is the crux of their exploitation. Without the male sex drive, these type of manipulative women have no power.

Today, money is so largely tied into mating and relationships in western culture that it's at sick and epidemic proportions. The dangerous subtely here is that it becomes a way of life and we start to use gender role specifics such as the man being the bread winner and being well off, and this leads into him being able to attain a pretty female. This is a dumbing down of humanity and propriety and if we aren't careful could lead to very unhealthy absolutes, and in my opinion already has. This effects everything with regards to how men and women enter relationships, date, make love, view sex, and even procreate. They are all linked to one another, they have to be. This will drastically affect future generations because as children see their parents do and act, they themselves will one day do and act in a similar fashion when they are old enough.

It's fairly obvious that women use this perceived power to their advantage in any situation they can. Yet the opposition to this truth is the propoganda that keeps women in a special class of the human race and men in a lower class. A general example of this is seen in male chivalry ideals. These ideals place more worth on women and children than a male. These type of reverse pychology tactics are aimed at what we view is proper behavior in society and within relationships and as it is, they highly benefit women and throw men under the bus, particularly when it comes to domestic matters. From dating, to work, to parenting, many women find any kind of pull or leverage they can in these situations and exploit old behavior such as the male dominance we saw in the 1950's. The pendulum of perceived power and control has shifted through the weight and importance of sex. This kind of psychological handicap puts men at a disadvantage below women in a crass capitalist culture. A smart woman, with a great deal of sexuality could easily become a millionaire in a year if she played her cards right. But it's not just money that is being frauded here, it's social pull, and many other situations where a woman can take advantage.

So women play both sides of the coin to exploit special treatment and all the benefits that come as societies golden child, so to speak. Women want supposed equality, but they also want special treatment. Their hide under the guise of victimization in order to achieve a psychological special class. The sad part is, they are succeeding. But who really loses here? What's the divorce rate now? We all lose, our children, society, finances, our morality, etc. etc.


2. The truth is that in western society feminism is distorted in reality and has boiled down to a passive aggressive power struggle. This translates into female sexual dominance using sex and female sexuality as bait to trap men into subservience. For instance, rape is often mentioned as a reason for how women can flaunt their nearly naked bodies in public and on the internet with little to no shame. A woman doesn't want to be told what to do with her body, yet at the same time she wants respect for her body, EVEN IF she throws it around improperly and in the most non classy manner. This is what we call a double standard. This is a type of reverse psychology that allow the ugliness of unclothing yourself to the general public while simultaneously taking away any shame involved in that, and subsequently playing into stereotypes that society has for women, such as sluts and loose behavior.

You just can't have it both ways. It's now normal for nearly naked women to adorn billboards, star in commercials, movies and music videos, and also to simply walk the streets showing off their goods. And yet despite this lewd behavior women still expect and demand respect from men and society. And if men and society don't give it to them then the man is considered a misogynist or an abuser and I wouldn't be surprised if he was accused of rape for feeling this way or at the least seriously berated for "not respecting women's rights."  This type of thing is erratic and dangerous. The lines are now blurred, a clear feminist leadership or understandably detailed women's rights campaign isn't being implemented. People are simply ignoring any study related to the subject of feminism and women's rights, and what we have today is a mutation of those rights that as is broad and multifaceted as it is ridiculous.

The distortion and exploitation of women's right has its gotten out of hand, particularly these last few decades with the opportunity for opulence and extremely radical opportunities for higher level living with the rise of the industrial revolution and modern amenities. This affords for the average ideal for a woman to now be rich and live lavish. In fact, this is the goal! Divorcees on some kind of housewives show, getting extremely famous and rich for having a sex video out and dating black superstars. These are all practical examples of the distortion in modern female social behavior. How often have you heard a female say a guy was "too poor" to date. Probably all the time right? This belies the conditioning that young women are being subject to. The idea that some women want power and money is in actuality realized practically in these types of behavior. The sick thing is I've never even heard a woman propose that she wanted equality in anything, let alone marriage. Women don't even want to get married anymore! But I hear time and time again, in no exact words, rather attitudes and behaviors, that women want to rule. (Don't listen to a person's words, rather their actions to determine their true character).

To my knowledge, gender equality is a given in western society. In practice, women are generally viewed as equals in school, work, and relationships. But the overpowering of the female presence is being seen so subtly in all of these situations and institutions.



3. I feel like whatever is perpetuated in practice is what will be classified as the source. So if women are about power, greed, lust, money, etc. and in reality and practice they don't care about equality or love, or any such kind of fairness, then they SHOULD be pegged as tyrants. Yet because of man shaming and the subtle mysandry that we see every day in our culture, they are not allowed to be called what they truly are, as that would make a man an abuser. Do you see where I am going here?

I'm using the example of dating because I've been in the dating game for the last five years. I'll say it's VERY rare for a woman to care about equality when it comes to finding a proposed mate. Actually most women I've met aren't even long term relationship minded. They fill up the crass, American microwave culture, that says they want everything RIGHT NOW. Female behavior is matriarchal at this point, and is also very rogue and even conquering. Almost as if women have flipped gender role specifics and exploited their new found opportunities for their own gain.

 What I see in society today is a mutated form of feminism that boils down to a power struggle that is enacted selfishly through sexual means. Women of my age, and generation use sex as a tool to get what they want, and men have allowed this to happen.

I believe that the current state of how men and woman treat each other and act around each other is not good for anyone, especially the children of our next generation. The materialistic and empty values that consumption and capitalism promotes are tied into these radical ideals, very much so. It has become normal for the majority of women to follow a selfish, narcissistic leader or archetypal female that is strong, sexually deceptive, highly sexual, unattainable, powerful, and of course beautiful. I do believe this is what the majority of young females aspire to be like. Look at popular music and how debasing it is for a female. She shows no signs of grace, civility, or propriety. Rather she's transmorphed herself into a conquering sexual best. Look at Lady Gaga, Madonna, Rihanna, Katty Perry, to name a few. They are all identified with their loose sexuality as perceived as power, rather than any character traits of goodness, motherliness, or even basic ethica propreity. If a large female role in society is to be a mother, then where does this leave women if they follow this archetypal example? .....in a state of perpetual sexuality.....that is, as long as it lasts. As long as the good looks last.

But bottom line, the female role is totally warped and distorted. I'll bet you'd be hard pressed to ask twenty females what their real role as a women in culture and society really is. You'd probably get twenty different answers. Which shows how the paradigm of priorities has shifted from loveing, supportive home maker to sexual politician. The gender roles and expectations are truly warped and saad. It went from the hope for equality to something sick, twisted, and dangerous.

We really have no genuine female representatives. At least none that I see, that are clearly an example of patriots for a properly outlined example of equality. Possibly women don't care anymore as they've seemingly been offered something much better than equality- power.

You can't call the ideology which allows this commercialization of the female body and purpose "radical", the people you call "radical" occupy tenured professorships in high ranking institutions, political office, and are driving public policy -- advocating no prison for woman murderers, banning paternity tests necessary to detect paternity fraud, killing needed alimony and child support reforms and re-authorizing sexist laws like VAWA.  So no, they're not radical, they're normal feminists  (as in female supremacists) who have convinced a lot of humanists to claim a faux and subtle feminism and grant legitimacy to their rabid defense of a blatant a mysandrist legal system with the obvious ulterior motive of "punishing" men collectively for the hyperbolic and apocryphal slights of the "patriarchy" taught to them by a distorted social feminist ideal.